The Sun has entered Cancer from the Sidereal zodiac, bringing a strong tendency to nurture and emotionally protect our loved ones. As soon as the Sun goes via Cancer the quality of divine motherhood is awakened in each of us -- at least that is the potential. Suddenly there is a renewed sensitivity to all of us as children. There's a good possibility for all to lay down their weapons and sympathize with their enemies for ones following couple of weeks. Cancer is the sign of sensitivity, compassion and motherhood. It's ruled by the moon, the world of selfless love, nurturing and peace. This is a variety of than the sort of adore we have in relationships that are transactional in nature. Relationship love is among two equals, two grown-ups. In relationship love, each person has to preserve up their part of the bargain, whatever that "bargain" is. Each relationship has a variety of boundaries which are negotiated and, nevertheless strange people boundaries may possibly seem to outsiders, as extended as the a couple of partnered agree on the terms, and honor them - there's commonly smooth sailing. This is what makes the relationship household (seventh house) a secondary firm / work house. We use the same negotiating skills at our work that we use in our romantic relationship - after all, persons are people. The larger trouble in relationships is our ability to compromise and satisfy our needs as well as accommodate an additional person's. Individuals who are able to yield their requirements with dignity do well in relationships. But this takes an authentic desire to please others combined with an both authentic intuition which knows exactly where to draw the line and can draw that line without having anger or excessive ego. However, the capacity to play fair and negotiate and uphold well-known boundaries, etc. will likely be really harmful inside a parent / baby relationship. As soon as a parent starts demanding the child treat them as an equal, at least after they are young, there can also be excellent harm done. Of course, once the child grows up into teenage many years and beyond the relationship starts to develop and mature. But still, the parent need to usually put the needed the baby just before their own. Fortunately, nature makes this easy -- once the infant begins to grow up and develop their personal personality, several immature parents stop serving the child / selflessly loving the child - and begin to very much of harm. Negotiating right relationship boundaries are related to Venus and powerfully expressed from the Cardinal sign she rules, Libra - the sign of relationships. And, as was said, the Moon rules selfless parental adore that only knows how to give. The mother loves the child no matter what the child does. But this shows the inherent struggle between Venus and also the moon - the inherent struggle between selfless adore and conditional love. It's extremely simple to mix these 2 things up in our mind. After relationships grow to be dominated by a selfless, parental sort of love -- is only a matter of time ahead of it starts to feel like abuse for 1 and co-managing for the other. There has to be accountability first, only then can romantic adore turn out to be selfless, devoted love. Similarly if the parent /
baby love is as well transactional, having a parent constantly insisting upon the immature mind from the baby being accountable for their emotional mistakes, as we would expect from our partner, a lot trouble arises also. Without having the paradigm of selfless adore during the parent/child relationship, the parent will not be in a position to insist upon accountability with no the child feeling attacked. This is an crucial difficulty at this time with Venus about to go retrograde to the sign of Cancer. In Vedic astrology both the moon as well as the Sun are enemies of Venus. This enmity is expressed in numerous ways. The influence in the moon on Venus (including occupying the sign of Cancer) is to confuse the transactional nature and expectation of adult relationship boundaries on the utterly selfless, caretaking, maternal nature from the moon. The influence with the Sun on Venus (including occupying the sign of Leo) is to insist upon a passionate, fiery and romantically accountable nature. These themes will play out in the upcoming Venus retrograde cycle discussed last week in this newsletter. The upcoming Venus retrograde cycle will mirror the recent Saturn retrograde cycle and also foreshadow next year's Mars/Ketu conjunction at 28 Cancer. There is an additional extremely crucial thing that need to be kept in mind relative to this Saturn / Venus relationship.
baby love is as well transactional, having a parent constantly insisting upon the immature mind from the baby being accountable for their emotional mistakes, as we would expect from our partner, a lot trouble arises also. Without having the paradigm of selfless adore during the parent/child relationship, the parent will not be in a position to insist upon accountability with no the child feeling attacked. This is an crucial difficulty at this time with Venus about to go retrograde to the sign of Cancer. In Vedic astrology both the moon as well as the Sun are enemies of Venus. This enmity is expressed in numerous ways. The influence in the moon on Venus (including occupying the sign of Cancer) is to confuse the transactional nature and expectation of adult relationship boundaries on the utterly selfless, caretaking, maternal nature from the moon. The influence with the Sun on Venus (including occupying the sign of Leo) is to insist upon a passionate, fiery and romantically accountable nature. These themes will play out in the upcoming Venus retrograde cycle discussed last week in this newsletter. The upcoming Venus retrograde cycle will mirror the recent Saturn retrograde cycle and also foreshadow next year's Mars/Ketu conjunction at 28 Cancer. There is an additional extremely crucial thing that need to be kept in mind relative to this Saturn / Venus relationship.
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